The prospect of a Pelosi visit to Taiwan became controversial immediately after news that it might take place broke through a Financial Times scoop. It’s likely, though, that there would not have been such controversy if the trip had simply taken place and Pelosi’s presence were only announced after she had arrived in Taiwan, minimizing the window for China to react.

Visits to Taiwan by U.S. elected officials have generally taken place in a low-key manner under the Biden administration, rather than with the grandstanding characteristic of the Trump administration.

Pelosi may intend the visit as a career capstone. Or it is possible her motivations involve the upcoming U.S. midterm elections; showcasing strong relations with Taiwan may be aimed at making the Democrats appear tough on China.

Openly visible splits between Joe Biden and Pelosi over the visit perhaps illustrate that the Democrats do not have consistent messaging on Taiwan. But since news of the visit broke, Beijing’s warnings of the possible consequences became so heated that it is probably now obligated to take a strong response, for fear of losing face or appearing weak. This illustrates one way in which rapidly shifting international commentary on Taiwan can, in fact, have tangible consequences. Professed concern that the U.S. also not appear weak has also become one of the main arguments from U.S. politicians, often Republicans, as to why such a visit should take place.

Either way, there have already been some direct responses from China, including both economic and military threats. Shortly before the visit, China announced bans on more than 100 food and agricultural products from Taiwan, continuing efforts to economically pressure Taiwan previously seen with import bans on fish or fruit. Likewise, Chinese naval vessels were spotted off the coast of Taiwan’s Orchid (Lanyu) Island, an increasingly common move in China’s repertoire of actions used to militarily intimidate Taiwan, and almost all flights in the coastal province of Fujian–the nearest Chinese province to Taiwan–were canceled. Air incursions by 21 Chinese warplanes took place the day of Pelosi’s landing. After Pelosi touched down, China announced military drilling around Taiwan, in areas that crossed into Taiwan’s territorial waters. For its part, the Taiwanese military has stated that it will step up military readiness in the next three days and conduct live-fire drills next week. U.S. naval vessel military aircraft activity has also been interpreted as in response to China’s actions.

It remains to be seen whether the Pelosi visit leads to a pattern of tit-for-tat escalation between the U.S., China, and Taiwan. Chinese leader Xi Jinping has much to lose from premature action, particularly given that he is likely to obtain an unprecedented third term at the upcoming National People’s Congress later this year, and may require stability for this to take place–unless Xi’s position is precarious and risky military action is a gambit aimed at consolidating his position.

Either way, as with other incidents in which Taiwan was militarily threatened by China, this did not lead to panic in the streets. Despite much of the world trumpeting about the dangers of the visit, and that it would be Taiwan directly in the line of fire from military reprisals from China, there was little discussion in policy circles of what the viewpoint of Taiwanese were on whether a visit was advisable or inadvisable. Nevertheless, news of Pelosi’s visit broke around the time of talks between Biden and Xi, and whenever such talks take place between the U.S. and China there is concern from Taiwan that its fate could be negotiated away as part of a deal between the two superpowers.

On paper, Pelosi’s trip should not have been a big deal. Even though someone of her rank has not visited Taiwan since the 1990s, U.S. delegations of elected senators have become routine. But when the People’s Republic of China (PRC) chose to take an existential attitude towards this trip, the meaning of her travel changed, and it became something much more than perhaps either side originally bargained for.

U.S.-Taiwan relations today are at an all-time high, with clear bipartisan support from Biden, congress, and civil society. At the same time, U.S.-China relations are at an all-time low. The hope for many is that Biden and Xi can find ways to rekindle the relationship in meaningful ways to make sure that the two powers can return to having a productive relationship.

Pelosi in the end chose to prioritize improving an already very strong U.S.-Taiwan relationship, knowing that China might use this as a moment to further resist rebuilding U.S.-China relations and increase threats towards Taiwan. Whether or not she was right to go, Taiwan will likely face retaliations from the PRC in the form of heightened military threats, economic coercion, and political punishment. Finding ways to mitigate these retaliatory measures without further escalating tension between the U.S. and China is the difficult balancing act the U.S., Taiwan, and its allies must find going forward.

While many want to paint this trip in black and white terms as “good” or “bad,” it is far more complex. Indeed, it is good for Pelosi to visit Taiwan and demonstrate the U.S.’s support in a way that is not dictated by China. But the U.S.-China relationship is critical, especially now, and her trip may further set back relations. This has become a major victory for U.S.-Taiwan relations, but perhaps it was not a victory that was needed at this moment. It also is a victory that comes with the cost of further strain in the Taiwan Strait and between the U.S. and China.

Writing this while inundated with headlines of Nancy Pelosi’s brief visit to Taiwan and a flood of unhelpful takes by many people who have never even set foot there makes one thing clear: If there is any hope of navigating what promises to be at best challenging relations among Taiwan, China, and the U.S., we need a helluva lot more people who have spent serious time in at least two and preferably all three countries.

I’m not advocating that Nancy Pelosi should move to Taiwan, and I don’t see her ever getting a visa to China. Nor am I saying that the experience of living in another country for some time gives magical insights into the needs and desires of the people who truly call that place home.

Having returned to the U.S. after two years in Taiwan, what concerns me is, first, despite an increasing number of Taiwan-based journalists providing on-the-ground perspectives, voices expressing what people in Taiwan think are still muted in the U.S. We need more Americans to read pieces like this one by Albert Wu and Michelle Kuo.

Second, I worry that Taiwan’s role is often relegated to passive object in a center-stage story of U.S.-China relations. The U.S. needs to cultivate a deep bench of Taiwan expertise that can bring texture to policy debates. Strengthening the already robust Taiwan Fulbright Program, increasing expertise across all three branches of the U.S. government through the proposed Taiwan Fellowship Program, and supporting Taiwan studies programs at more than the current handful of U.S. universities are all concrete steps to change this.

At the same time, we need to get American scholars and students back into China. Hopefully China will start to relax tight visa restrictions after the 20th Party Congress. On the U.S. side, there are certainly reasons to be wary even if borders open, but the blunt State Department warning does not address how risks vary among different people or ways to mitigate those risks.

Being a student in China during the Third Taiwan Strait crisis in 1995-1996 impressed upon me the depth of emotion connected to Taiwan and gave me an opportunity to probe, and push back on, those views. How many American students are in China today having those conversations?

And how many Chinese students are in the U.S. today having those conversations? The U.S. needs not only to make visas available but also to make the country a welcoming place for people of Chinese, and broader Asian, heritage.

Investing in deepening human connections among Taiwan, China, and the U.S. will not avoid all conflicts. But it can lessen the chances that simmering tensions erupt into full-blown crises. Right now as I’m toggling to refresh my browser for news updates from the other side of the world, avoiding full-blown crisis sounds pretty good.

Some commentators argue that Taiwan, the U.S., and China are sliding into the Fourth Taiwan Strait Crisis. I beg to differ. First of all, it seems misguided to compare the U.S. Speaker of the House of Representatives Nancy Pelosi’s visit to Taiwan with the three past Taiwan Strait crises. The first two crises were a continuation of the Chinese Civil War, fought between the Chinese Communist Party and the Kuomintang on the Chinese mainland, and the third began with Taiwanese President Lee Teng-hui’s visit to Cornell University. None of the previous crises were initiated by the U.S.

Second, while Western media tends to depict the People’s Republic of China (PRC) government as saber-rattling, as of August 2, I tend to view China as exercising a degree of restraint on the issue. The news of Pelosi’s visit was revealed by the Financial Times on July 19, and it is hard to argue that the Chinese government has tried to escalate the issue into a diplomatic or military crisis in the past two weeks. Pelosi’s visit to Taiwan has not, in fact, dominated official Chinese news media like the events of the Third Taiwan Strait Crisis or the U.S.’s accidental bombing of the Chinese embassy in Belgrade in the ’90s. Furthermore, although spokespersons of the Ministry of Foreign Affairs of China have issued several warnings to the U.S. at press conferences, their rhetoric has followed typical propaganda regarding Taiwanese independence. The Chinese senior leadership at and above the Politburo level has not yet publicly talked about this issue. On the military front, we have not seen Chinese aircraft intrude into Taiwan’s airspace on as large a scale as in the past. China could have flexed its muscles much more to pressure Taiwan or the U.S., but it chose not to.

Certainly, this non-confrontational response from China does not mean that it will not retaliate against Taiwan militarily or diplomatically in the future. But the reaction may suggest that China is trying to send a political message to leaders in Washington or other countries that in terms of Pelosi’s visit, the Chinese government does not intend to resort to using force against the U.S. If there is any lesson to be drawn from the military history of the People’s Republic of China, it is that China is rarely interested in challenging the U.S. militarily. Targets of China’s use of force are primarily small countries on its periphery. Therefore, the likelihood that China will punish Taiwan after the visit is high, but in my view, the probability of a U.S.-Chinese military showdown is low.